Supporting Success

"Behind every successful man is a woman"

We hear this all the time, since the beginning of time.
As the world population evolves, we are constantly challenged to look outside of our comfort zones. So, is it that much of a surprise that we should also consider the below saying?

"Behind every successful woman is a man"

Not being sexist. Just thinking out of the norm. Really, have you thought about it?

I know many successful ladies. Ladies who are up there in the corporate world. Ladies who travel the world. Ladies who can still manage a kid or two while juggling her career. Those, I really admire. I constantly remind them how awesome they are to be able to manage two of the most difficult jobs - being a career woman and being a mother. But let's be practical. She cannot be successful by herself. She needs support. From her partner/hubby, from her parents, from her family.

So, if your partner/wife is a successful career woman, please do not feel intimidated. Some folks tell me it's a built-in DNA for men to feel intimidated by successful women. Maybe, maybe not.

Men who are intimidated by their successful wives/partners, grow some balls. Lose the insecurities. There is nothing wrong with a woman managing a successful career AND a family. F**k the norm. Says who we have to do what the rest of the world does. So, it makes your family abit more special. Be proud of that! Ignore the noise from your insecure friends who still live in the Stone Age and believe that a woman's place is in the kitchen/at home.

The man in my life may have some insecurities but there is one area that I am always proud of him. To be able to hold his head up high and tell his friends :

"I am proud of my woman!"

Cruel world

As you struggle internally,
And fretted externally,
All I could do,
Amidst all the frustrations...

Is to hold you tightly.
Is to support you emotionally.
Is to remind you that I am still here,
Will still be here for a long, long time.

Times ahead will be tough.
Very tough.
So tough that it will sap you (and us) dry.

To you, I will smile.
To you, I will stay strong.
To me, I will die a little inside.
To me, I will fight to not be bitter.

But, that's life.
Unpredictable and cruel.

Now you understand why I am constantly fighting for my own happiness? For my own life?
Because I know nothing is permanent in this world.

Not even Life.
Especially not Life.

The light

As we walked hand in hand towards the machine that will take you miles away, this light momentarily blinded us.

It reminded me that no matter how irresistable today's sunset may be, tomorrow's sunlight will always be more beautiful. More to offer us. More to live for.

You always lament that Life is so unfair. Always throwing challenges that seem almost impossible to recover from. And I always tell you "No matter what happens, I will always be there to support you". I meant it when I said these words years ago, I still mean it today.

So no matter how tough the going gets, please remember that we are in this together. For life. Do not attempt to shoulder all of the s**t on your shoulders. I have strong shoulders too (thanks to Body Pump and Body Combat, heh!).

As long as we do not give up the fight, we will always win in the end.

Remember, remember that!